ctrain:

Do women send strange men unsolicited appearance “advice” over OKCupid or is this a men-only phenomenon?

I used to send women profile corrections when they had an otherwise seemingly good profile and some terribly glaring error that set off a red light in my head. mostly grammatical things but on occasion it would be something relationship related about just getting out of a long term and either looking for something super serious very quick or otherwise common obvious don’t-tell-the-public things about you.

Looks are SO SO SO subjective and guys are so frequently so decisive about immediate positive or negative that I bet these so called “advice” guys are just trying to employ the current hot way to hit on girls which is the so-called neg but are implementing it terribly.